What do young women want?

They're in "the trenches," as a TikTok meme puts it, questioning their desires.

Photo: Laura Vinck

This week, a young woman told me that she found my memoir through a snippet of audio that is trending on TikTok. It’s just a few seconds of the actress Suki Waterhouse saying, “I think when you’re a young woman in your twenties… I don’t think there’s any getting out of, you know, it’s the trenches.” The sound is often being used to mak…