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Women like men too much
It's why they casually 'hate' them. The problem is loving men in patriarchy. It's the 'tragedy of heterosexuality.'
Oct 24, 2024 • 
Tracy Clark-Flory
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Women like men too much
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Make America Objectify Women Again
Conservatives are claiming certain women's bodies and sex appeal as an anti-woke political symbol while *oh-so-bravely* celebrating men's desire.
Dec 19, 2024 • 
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A feminist utopianism
Sophie Lewis argues against the 'fatalism' of both 4B and heteropessimism, and calls for a collective movement built on solidarity.
Nov 14, 2024 • 
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Forget 'marriage material.' What about revolution material?
Myisha Battle, a feminist sex and dating coach, on looking for love while our systems fail us.
Oct 17, 2024 • 
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Forget 'marriage material.' What about revolution material?
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The roleplay of everyday life
'Babygirl' takes on the suffocating roles of Wife and Mom, while scripting a fantasy where being bad is *good.*
Jan 2 • 
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A mockery of fathers
Men like J.D. Vance hate ‘childless cat ladies' and single moms for the same reason: they challenge patriarchal values. Just ask Murphy Brown.
Sep 18, 2024 • 
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Beware hetero-exceptionalism
On 'good husbands' and 'divorce memoir' backlash.
Aug 15, 2024 • 
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Sabrina Carpenter is a heterofatalist princess
The pop star campily romanticizes women being mistreated by men—and then crawling back to them. She perfectly understands the current mood.
Jun 12 • 
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Sabrina Carpenter is a heterofatalist princess
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The girlfriend gaze
Calvin Klein's new campaign starring Jeremy Allen White understands a little something about the boyfriend experience, and about a woman watching a man…
Aug 29, 2024 • 
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The year of hetero discontent
From sex strikes to divorce memoirs, a review of straight culture in 2024.
Dec 6, 2024 • 
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So, *about* positive masculinity
Just a cautionary, big-picture note re: Tim Walz and Doug Emhoff. What about 'tonic' humanity?
Aug 8, 2024 • 
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So, *about* positive masculinity
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The 'marry him' essay
On the perennial ploy of telling hetero women that marriage is the solution for the inequities they face—in fertility, childcare, finances, and…
Mar 28, 2024 • 
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The 'marry him' essay
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